Three weddings and a funeral

A friend's e-mail alluding to my blog has reminded me that I haven't written it since the death we had in the family nearly four weeks ago. It has been a busy time. My father-in-law's funeral was on 16th and a great number of family members converged on Oxford for a very beautiful, classical service in Merton College chapel. Michael Billington gave the eulogy and four family members read passages - two of his four children and three of his six grandchildren.

One grandchild had flown over specially from New York with some difficulty. She married an American in summer 04 but has not got her green card yet and was officially without a visa. She got a special compassionate leave one after the death certificate had been faxed to the Department for Homeland Security! And Paul, my husband's half brother, was over from Mexico.

A poigtnant touch was John's black hat on the coffin.

Then there was a tea party with wine in the JCR and lots of people stayed on for that. There were three boards with photographs from his very long life, including shots with Laurence Olivier and Danny Kaye but of more interest to us the first photo my husband had ever seen of his English grandmother.

It was a rush to prepare for Christmas after that, especially since there was an issue of Armadillo to edit and get online. Amazing how everything always gets done every year. Among the flood of Christmas cards, two friends in their fifties separately announced that they had got or were going to get married. A third, younger woman, we already knew was engaged but she too will marry next March.

The Falconer's Knot has been much neglected and I am now two chapters behind. But my researcher has now finished her PhD and will have more time to give me. I'm looking forward to it but we have another family event on 1st January - dinner for ten. Then it will be time to roll up sleeves, refuse all social invitations and FOCUS!